Warning: Explicit Conversations About Politics, Culture, & Sexuality Our second great Kink Month ride of 2021 choo-choos through the Tunnel of Love down the Bonobo Way of peace through pleasure, female empowerment, male well-being, organic kink and sharing resources with our beautiful kinky friends and lovers in an equitable sustainable society on a clean Earth. Of course, that’s the ideal and, as Capt’n Max says, the ideal is the enemy of the real. The reality is 1) We’re being harassed by the city of Arcadia’s mattress-mad zoned-out Zoning Politburo; 2) We miss seeing our old friends in this crazy Coronapocalypse […]

Warning: Explicit Conversations About Politics, Culture, & Sexuality Happy Kink Month! Hop on the Love Train for some kinky sex, kinky politics, kink-positive sex therapy and kinky bonobo love. We also review our nonconsensually kinky Kangaroo Court hearing before the Arcadia city inspectors’ *politburo* circling the wagons around their own peeping-tomfoolery and unseemly interest in what we do in bed. Kicking off Kink Month 2021, we explore the meaning of kink, a few of the many different types of kink, bondage as a bonding experience, kinky orgasms, spanking therapy, cougar kink, latex fashion and, now in the Coronapocalypse, kinky masks […]

Warning: Explicit Conversations About Politics, Culture, & Sexuality Falling in love in Fall flows like sweet sap from the maple tree, the sun rising later and nights lasting longer, optimal conditions for cuddling up with someone you love and falling deeper into the warmth between you. Of course, long-term love has its ups and downs, hair-raising twists and hairpin turns, and so does our Love Train as we ride through some of the glories (gorillas going downtown!) and hazards (climate catastrophes everywhere!) of Autumn Equinox, 2021. At a couple points, this ride gets so intense, our little Love Train almost […]

Warning: Explicit Conversations About Politics, Culture, & Sexuality We’re having a ball on F.D.R. – from the Met Gala ball with AOC’s “Tax the Rich” ballgown to #Ballgate with Nicki Minaj’s Trinidadian cousin’s vaccinated friend’s swollen balls. We also got Brett’s Balls virtually in our face—again! Remember when our fellow Yalie Deborah Ramirez accused him of shoving his cojones at her (unsolicited!) just after Christine Blasey Ford’s testimony made him bawl like a baby? Then the Senate confirmed this lying crying creep anyway. Well, since he and four of his associate Right-Wing U.S. Supreme Court (in)Justices voted to let the […]

Warning: Explicit Conversations About Politics, Culture, & Sexuality 9/11: A date almost everyone knows, yet it’s still shrouded in mystery, like it was a dream, a myth or a movie. It sure looked like a movie, something no one had ever seen before… and hasn’t since. The appalling spectacle of passenger planes flying into the World Trade Centers crumbling to dust live and on repeat—one fiery, phantasmagorical special effect after another—from every different angle, felt totally surreal. Unfortunately, it was real. It was also very deadly. At least 2997 human beings lost their lives that dreadful day, and thousands more […]